I've been smitten with Finland since the minute I landed. My very first Uber driver looked exactly like Santa Claus and greeted me with a warm "你好(means hii in Chinese)." I blurted out, "Whoa, you can speak Chinese—so cool!" He just pointed at his license (maybe to prove he was a real driver because I was fangirling so hard). When we reached my stop, he admitted he didn't speak English at all. I kept saying, "My bad," and he laughed, just as lost as I was. For that moment, we were simply two people from the global South figuring out an English-centric world together—instant solidarity.
Every shop I passed that day felt the same sort of gentle: owners looked me straight in the eye, said "hi," and still waved me off with "bye, have a nice day!" even when I didn't buy a thing. We weren't locked in a buyer-seller script; we were just humans briefly crossing paths. Nobody here obsesses over "scalable" business models. The vibe is all about uniqueness, hand-made craft, and taking real care.
The museums tell the rest of the story. You can literally watch culture evolve on the walls—from painting "others" to painting oneself. Humanity's walked a long road and yet self is still the headline act.
Maybe this feels extra magical because Finland is so far—psychologically and geographically—from my day-to-day world. Friends keep raving about Tallinn and Stockholm, too. Next trip, I'm definitely hopping over to feel those cities firsthand.
Finland, you've officially stolen my heart. Until next time.
Xianglu TANG
Psychology Researcher | AI & Human Agency Specialist
Stanford HAI & Columbia Business School